Next Steps; what a ride, oops walk, it’s been!

I don’t remember the day that I started team Next Steps but I sure do remember the day it came to its culmination, April 24th 2010. Now let’s not get ahead our selves though. There’s a lot to tell about the few months between those two dates.

Next Steps was initially just my husband, friend Kim, and I.  It was my heart child born of many years of knowing that I should be participating in events such as these, but turning my back out of ignorance, fear, and the discomfort I felt in asking people for money.  Looking at my children and thinking of their future  was enough for me to overcome these emotions and Next Steps, the child of my heart, was born.

We had a name, three members, and not a clue in the world where to go from there.  We set our fund-raising goals at the lowest possible except, being the captain, I took a leap of faith and upped mine to $500.  I’ve never fund raised before and I think had it not been for this new contraption which we call the internet I might not have been able to do it this time. Not many of my ex-coworkers, Ed’s coworkers, or our friends really knew much, if anything at all, about my diagnosis and current situation, so I sat down and wrote a letter.  I sent it out to all the people I knew whose email address I had handy and Ed did the same.

Then a miracle began to happen.  Within 5 minutes of sending out that letter I had at least $100 in donations, within 20 minutes  we had at least $300 in donations and that very first night I increased my goal for the first of many times.  Over the next few days the donations kept coming in, however I was also getting letters of sympathy, disbelief, others telling of a similar struggle, and some just simply thanking me for sharing.  It was an outpouring of money, support as people joined our team, and love that just a few days earlier I never would’ve even thought to dream of.

As the weeks went on, we were able to contact more people, and the money continued to come in, I was asked to be the Columbia Walk Ambassador.  I began to believe in the power team Next Steps could have, and I started to feel a bit like my old self for the first time in quite a while.  Our friends had so generously given, and continued to give, but I felt that it was now time to help ourselves a little by arranging some fund-raisers.  We had two fundraisers at Cheeburger Cheeburger, were the recipients of National Cheese Fondue Day (yes it really exists), held a two-day yard sale resulting in sales of over $2100, and an all-day fundraiser at Looney’s Pub, and to finish up a dinner fund-raiser at The Hazelwood Inn.   By the day of the walk, we were the highest earning team, and even though I had continued to raise my goal up to $6,000 with the team goal of $8,000 I had raised over $7000 and our team was over $12,000.  What a feat and a thrill!

This didn’t happen by itself, and it wasn’t done by me alone. In fact, it didn’t come so easily at all points along the way.We had a lot of help from many friends throughout the process, many who even gave up several days to us.  We had our life taken over for approx. two months by a yard sale that lasted for two days and ended up with me collapsing in exhaustion the minute Ed walked through the door from work the next day.  Every fund-raiser caused anxiety as we juggled the kids’ schedules and waited to see what the turnout would be.    There were slow periods when I wondered if we would meet our goal, days my legs felt weak which made me doubt whether I would even be able to participate, and as I was tottering on such an emotional tightrope  I would often find myself tumbling into the depression side of the gulf.  If things didn’t go perfectly, I would often look at myself as a failure, a problem I’ve dealt with for a large portion of my life.

The day of the walk was amazing!  It was full of energy and people wanting to help find a solution to the problem of MS, not to mention all the hair colored orange.  I gave a speech as the Walk Ambassador, and got to see my friends out in full support of both me and such a great cause .  I finished the walk and as a friend commented, was even able to talk the whole way.  The greatest victory of the day however, besides the incredible amount of funds and support raised for the fight against MS, was the moment my Mom finished the course, came up to me, gave me a huge hug with a big smile on her face and yelled “I did it!”

After all the ups and downs, would I do it again?  YES!  In fact we are still raising funds up to the May 31st deadline and then will just continue until the next May 31st. deadline.  Hopefully along the way our team will continue to grow and in love, support, and money raised.

Thank you so much to all of you out there who helped and supported us this year.  Team Next Steps now has its own page on Facebook.  Please feel free to stop by and leave a message or join to be kept up to date of our latest news and happenings!

The only thing I could ask for now, which would be another miracle, would be me somehow raising (my personal fund-raising page) $2191.19 by May 31st, 2010 so I could attend a meeting in Chicago of the top fund-raisers across the country to learn from them and pass that knowledge on to our members and total goal for next year.  We’ve already been granted one miracle though and I don’t want to be greedy.

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1 Comment

  1. May 24, 2010 at 2:15 am

    Congrats! Fundraising has always intimidated me. Am glad that both your fundraising and “coming out” was so positive.

    Donna


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